2024 Deadly Ally Carer of the Year – Tessa McPeake

Posted on 19 October 2024
Category Carer stories

Tessa McPeake embodies compassion and cultural understanding, driven by her passion for sharing both her home and her heart. In her nomination for the Deadly Ally award, it was noted that Tessa’s genuine respect for Aboriginal culture and her dedication to fostering a deep connection between the children and their heritage make her an invaluable ally.

 Tessa has become a vital resource for young Aboriginal people in her care, earning respect for her genuine dedication to their culture.

Working tirelessly to nurture a strong connection between the children and their heritage, Tessa goes beyond merely providing respite. Her efforts include organising trips to culturally significant sites, participating in community events, and collaborating closely with Elders. Through these activities, Tessa ensures the children can engage meaningfully with their cultural identity.

As part of her commitment to professional growth, Tessa actively participates in online forums and training to deepen her understanding of trauma and its effects.

“Knowing and understanding things like trauma, the effect on the brain and how to cultivate a safe and supportive environment for those who have been through trauma, is so important,” says Tessa

 With the help of her pets—a cat and a dog—Tessa provides comfort and companionship, while a personalised introduction book helps each child feel welcomed. Engaging activities like cooking, outdoor exploration, and arts and crafts fosters a sense of belonging and joy.

Tessa’s impact on the young people she supports is profound, instilling in them a strong pride in their Aboriginal identity. She also encourages others to consider becoming carers.

“I’d say look into your heart, see how much love you have in your life and ask yourself – What can you share with others? I’m a single person at a ‘grandma age’ with a lot of love to give and if I can do this, I know others can too” she says.